From:                              Christy Obie-Barrett [christy@afamilyforeverychild.ccsend.com] on behalf of Christy Obie-Barrett [cbobie@aol.com]

Sent:                               Wednesday, March 02, 2011 12:23 AM

To:                                   nancy.guardino@afamilyforeverychild.org

Subject:                          HG Child of the Month March AFFEC 2011

 

Heart Gallery

 Child of the Month

http://www.afamilyforeverychild.org (541-343-2856)

880 Beltline Rd. Springfield, OR 97477 

A Family For Every Child

March 2011

Lee'Aujanique 

Age 9

Lee'Aujanique 9 

 

Lee'Aujanique is a 'girly girl' who loves all things pretty and frilly, especially pretty things in her hair.

Lee'Aujanique is the second of five siblings and the oldest of the three in care since the birth of their youngest brother.

Due to neglect in the birth family home Lee'Aujanique was not enrolled in school and thus did not complete kindergarten. She does best when she has undivided attention from parents and teachers.

She and her younger brother have lived apart for the last two years after disrupting from their tenth placement together within a year of entering care. Their combined behavior was simply too much for most families to manage. He is not in an adoptive placement. A family willing to maintain contact with him is desired and it is hoped the families will provide supports to each other such as respite so that the siblings can spend quality time together. 

 

Bulletin WA335

 

 

Kallen 

Age 12

Kallen 12 

 

Hi, my name is Kallen. I want a Mom and a Dad. Maybe a big brother. I love animals, like dogs. I like to be in the outdoors. I also love to be a creative writer. I've been looking for a forever family. I have a good sense of humor.

I have been thinking about what I want in a family, and now I want to experience that. I would do anything to be adopted. I want to be loved. I also like to be tucked in. I want to have discipline, but some freedom. I am warm-hearted. I like to exercise, like running. I have had rough patches in my life, but they are sewn up.

Smart and quick-witted, Kallen often uses that intelligence to write, especially in the morning or while riding on the bus. He wrote the letter above to express his intense desire for a family. He's waited nine long years for that.

Kallen is fun to spend time with because his wheels are always turning. Keeping him busy helps manage his hyperactivity. According to his foster mom, having a young, engaging family that can meet his activity needs will be key in his life. ''He needs somebody that is structured and will give reasonable consequences, then stand by them,'' she said. ''When he realizes that you mean what you say, he has shown he can adjust and ultimately he respects people who hold him accountable.''

Described as impulsive, inquisitive, humorous, a sharp dresser and someone who likes to keep his room in order, Kallen is most successful when he receives praise and attention, especially when it's connected to sincere efforts to overcome challenges. He has learned many coping skills, however; he needs parents who will remind him to use them when he is overwhelmed, excited or upset. He wants a family who can allow him to control some parts of his environment; Kallen says it makes him feel safe.

Kallen responds well to unconditional love, clearly expressed expectations and generous hugs at the end of the day. He has made astounding progress in the past several months, due in large part to mature foster parents who truly care about him. They hope to always be a part of his life and to remain in contact with him.

Kallen takes pride in his manners. He is also enjoying an ability to choose to disengage from tense situations, take a break and find safe ways of expressing anger. He looks forward to having parents who give him time in his room to think things through and talk about it in a cooler moment. He often processes through writing his thoughts and sharing them with his foster mom. She is no push-over, but also emphasizes that each day is a new day.

Kallen says he wants a traditional mom and dad who will do things together as a family. He loves sports, camping, fishing and hunting. He would love to get better at snow boarding.

Parents who provide strong boundaries, clear rules and structure will be rewarded by a smoother transition into their home. His foster mom says he becomes anxious when he has too much time to anticipate a drastic change in his routine, yet he does need a thoughtful transition to change.

Kallen deserves to be surrounded by a family team who appreciates who he is now as well as his potential. He deals with emotional challenges by keeping his pain inside until it bubbles to the top. In the past, emotional outbursts were usually the result of frustration, being tired, misunderstanding or feeling that he had been treated unjustly. Kallen is learning to be more introspective. He knows that mending is often more important than defending.
Kallen wants a family to help him transition into adolescence and to teach him how to be a happy and successful young man.

Allowing contact between Kallen and his younger sister is important to him. They are bonded, though they do need separate homes. Do you have room in your heart and your home for someone who wants so badly to belong to a family? Kallen is ready to share his life with the right family. 

 

Bulletin ID119

 

 

Steven 

Age 9

Steven 9 

 

Steven is a very creative, cute and energetic nine year old. He loves swimming, reading, and playing with legos and lincoln logs. Steven is usually good with pets and would respond well to an active adoptive dad who would take a big role in parenting him.

Steven is now in the first grade in a mainstream classroom where he qualifies for additional support for math, reading and written expression.

Steven has a younger brother named Jeremy who he is not being placed with at this time due to a difficult sibling relationship. In the future, the boys may want to have contact and the adoptive family should be open and supportive of this possibility.

Steven's social worker is looking for single dads or couples who have experience with children who have behavioral special needs. His adoptive parents will need to be familiar with the tools used in behavioral management or be willing to learn. He will need supportive parents who will give him the time and space he needs to trust and form relationships. 

 

Bulletin WA258

 

 

 Website Need


A Family For Every child is seeking web-savvy volunteers to help with our websites.

We have small assignments with lots of skill levels, ranging from novice to guru.

Attention to detail is very important, as is a regular schedule and ability to work onsite for between 4 and 10 hours a week.

If you are able to fit your code into an existing project, you can excel!

We need volunteers who know:

 

                HTML/CSS/PERL

                Javascript / DOM / JQuery

                Database / SQL / Salesforce

                Website security

                PHP and MySqli

                Making PC old hardware run like new

                Audio production

 

If you have a resume reflecting some of your experience, please send it to scott@afamilyforeverychild.org
 and fill out the online
Volunteer form

 

 

 Camp to Belong Event

 

    Camp to Belong

 

Saturday April 9th, 2011 @ Stoller Vineyards 6:00pm - 9:30pm

Join us and bid on over 100 fabulous items....

Wonderful family packages!

Trips and great experiences

And much, much more...

 

Purchase Tickets here

 

Don't miss out on this great opportunity to make a difference in a child's life!

 

To learn more about CTB-NW or to volunteer, please contact:

Karyn Schimmels

Program Director

(971) 219-4434

 

 

 

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 Patrick 11

Patrick 

Age 11

 

Hi! My name is Patrick. The things I think you should know about me are that I like to play basketball, ride my bike and scooter, play video games, and that I really want a mom and dad to take care of me and keep me safe. I sometimes get angry that I don't have a family to love me and take care of me. When I get angry I can yell and act out, but I am working on controlling my emotions and think I have made a lot of progress.

I like animals and can take good care of them. I am excited that I'm going to be living in a place that has horses and cows. I really want to take care of a baby calf. I am sad that this place doesn't have a mom and a dad though, but I know I will get one soon. While I wait I am going to work really hard to have good behaviors and do well in school.''

I need a family who will help me stay in touch with my older brother and two sisters who live here [SW Idaho]. I see them almost every weekend. I want a mom and a dad who want to adopt me and will never get rid of me. I would also like it if they would play with my toys with me and watch movies with me. I would love it if my new mom and dad would read to me.''

Because Patrick has seen more hard times than any child should experience, he needs a traditional home with two parents who have excellent parenting skills, lots of patience, and previous experience parenting a special needs child. Patrick has been through a multitude of traumas, including multiple moves. He desperately needs stability in his life, and a family that will commit to him and stick with him through a certain difficult transition. He deserves parents who are inherently wise and emotionally secure. Patrick has thrived in a foster home with strong boundaries, a very structured environment, and consistency in creative disciplinary techniques. Clarity of communication has helped Patrick understand rules and find comfort in reliable routines. Patrick is now ready for wider opportunities to experience his world. Organized sports and community activities such as Scouting, camping, and YMCA programs are ways he can continue to build confidence and learn how to manage emotional outbursts.

Patrick could be the only child in a family. He would also do well with teen siblings who are not competitive about a parent's attention. This boy could learn social skills from older family members who are positive mentors and role models.

Patrick wants frequent visits and contact with siblings living in Boise, Idaho. The children look forward to sleepovers, shared vacations or other opportunities to remain in close contact.  

 

Bulletin ID108

 

 

 

 Lorenzo

 Lorenzo 

Age 8

 

Hoping to identify a family in Washington or close enough to facilitate continued visits with his older brother.

Lorenzo is a shy boy who smiles easily and likes being outside; running, playing ball, riding on his hot wheels and scooter as well as playing with other children.

This little boy has faced many challenges in his life, and will face more as he grows. He needs the safety and stability of a permanent home, where all his needs can be met.

He'll need committed parents who are willing to learn about and can support him on a day to day basis. A strong family who will advocate for his special needs, now and in the future. His prospective adoptive parents will need to have access to community resources, and be willing to work cooperatively with professionals and other social service and educational providers.

Prospective parents should be open to continued contact between Lorenzo and his brother, if it is deemed beneficial for Lorenzo. Most importantly, Lorenzo needs a family who will love him as their own and afford him kindness, patience and compassion, within a well supervised and structured home. 

 

Bulletin WA207

 

 

    

Timothy 15 

Timothy 

Age 15


Timothy is a shy 14-year-old boy, who hasn't had much opportunity to just be a child. He enjoys a challenging game of chess to use his advanced logic and thinking skills, and he also like riding his bike, skateboarding and playing electronic games. He thrives on adult attention and responds well to people who like him.

Timothy came into foster care when he was 8 years old and was adopted by a relative when he was 10 (along with younger twin brothers). He (and his brothers) returned to foster care in 2007, and though his brothers have since been adopted separate), Timothy is still waiting for his forever family. Due to past traumas, Timothy responds better to men than women. He needs to learn that not all women are bad and they are capable of loving him.

At school, Timothy struggles with writing, but he is improving, and his teacher reports he is a pleasure to have in her class.

Timothy wants 2 parents to adopt him. He expresses no gender preference, as long as it's not a single parent. He wants parents who will cook for him, show him affection and enjoy being in his company. He needs a committed family, who will spend time with him, talking, playing games and actively engaging him in daily activities; a family who will advocate for his educational and emotional needs and help him nurture his relationship with his brothers.

Timothy can get along with other children, but he requires his own space, where he can withdraw and have quiet time now and then. He needs a family who can appreciate his strengths and love him for who he is, while gently guiding him toward further improvements. Such a family will find Timothy to be a rewarding and engaging child. 

Bulletin WA167

 

 

Princess for a Day 2011

 

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A Family For Every Child presents the 3rd Annual Princess for a Day event on Sunday, March 6th, from 10am to 5pm at the Valley River Inn. Girls ages 2-18 are invited to come and be transformed into beautiful princesses!

Every Girl Deserves to be a Princess!

To Register for the event, click here  

  

Event is FREE for Girls in Foster Care

 Non-Foster Girls $50.00. Your ticket price will help support the cost of a foster "Princess" in the community!

 Have a royal day with your favorite Princess!

As girls arrive to the event, they are ushered into the makeshift salon, sponsored by local beauty experts, for pampering and makeovers. Next stop is wardrobe, where each child receives a princess dress, slippers, a feather boa, a tiara, and accessories. A professional photographer takes a picture of each girl before she is escorted by a teen volunteer to the ballroom for tea and refreshments. Every child leaves the event with a keepsake professional-quality photograph of herself, her princess outfit, and a goody bag.

If you are interested in helping and/or donating dresses or accessories, contact Christy: christy@afamilyforeverychild.org or jenelle@afamilyforeverychild.org

 

 

Save the Date!

 

Dear Prospective Foster and Adoptive Parents,

 

The Bellevue Rotary Club and Region IV DCFS are collaborating to bring you an exciting opportunity to meet sibling groups of children and youth in need of foster and adoptive families! We are extending this invitation to you in hopes that you will attend. 

 

Every year hundreds of children are separated from their siblings in foster care and adoption; often because there are simply too few families able and willing to consider taking in more than one child at a time! The Bellevue Rotary Club and Region IV DCFS want to change this by helping families learn about the many excellent resources available to support siblings and caregiving families and by providing families an opportunity to meet and interact with the siblings who need them!

 

The children and youth attending will have fun with their siblings in a carnival like atmosphere! They will also have an opportunity to meet and connect with prospective foster and/or adoptive families. The Connections Carnival serves as a "first meeting" where families and children mingle informally while enjoying a variety of activities including scavenger hunts, music, crafts and games for children of all ages. Because of the numbers of children and families present this interaction is much more a 'carnival' and less pressure than a one-to-one meeting.

 

All children and youth attending will receive prizes! This is guaranteed to be a fun event for adults and children!

A Resource Fair will kick off the Carnival and families will learn about the many resources, supports and services available to foster and adoptive parents of sibling groups!

 

Families must be pre-registered and have current criminal background clearances! Families do not need to have to have approved foster or adoptive home studies to attend. Please contact Laurie Mayer by email at the address below if you would like to register to attend. Background clearances can be confirmed by family's agency workers or arrange to be completed by Laurie Mayer.

 

Sincerely,

 

Laurie Mayer, MSW

Program Consultant, Reg IV Office of Adoption and Permanency Planning

Email:laurie.mayer@dshs.wa.gov

 

 

 

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Other Volunteer Needs

 

Our mission is to find loving, permanent families for waiting foster children.  As a non-profit our work takes hundreds of volunteer hours, without these amazing people our work would not be a success!  We value each and every one of our volunteers and cannot thank you enough for your thoughtful consideration.

 

 

Submission Team:

We send nearly 700 home studies each month to various caseworkers for families who are waiting to be selected. To do this it takes many volunteer hours from people who can pay attention to detail and are able to email and attach files. This position takes someone who is able to come to our office and can range anywhere from 3 to 20 hours a week, depending on your availability.  While this work takes a lot of time, it is highly rewarding, especially when you get to see a family chosen for a child!


Office Assistance:

We are in need of a few people who can assist with filing, answering phones, checking references and other various tasks. All training will be provided. This person would ideally be able to volunteer 2 - 5 hours per week.

 

Venue Volunteers:

Another tool we use for recruiting for children is our local venues. You may have seen these around the area (if you reside in Oregon). We display photos of available and waiting children with bio information in restaurants, doctors and dentist's offices, airports, grocery stores and the like. We are currently in need of several venue volunteers in the Eugene and surrounding area. All photos and needs are supplied by our organization. This basically consists of picking up your new photos, going to the venue and swapping them out with the old.

 

Foster Support Meeting Volunteer:

Twice a month we hold meetings at Boys and Girls Aide for current foster families.  We would love to have one or two volunteers that would commit to spending time with the kids while their foster parents are in support meetings. It would be ideal to have college age volunteers who are willing to play with and support these kids. The meetings are generally two hours and are on every other Thursday evening.

 

Volunteer Family Adoption Specialists:

We have a Matching Assistance Program that partners with families that are currently in the adoption process. This program is geared towards families who have not yet had a placement and have been in the process for a year or longer.  The goal of this program and the task of the Family Adoption Specialist is to walk alongside families in their journey. Give them feedback on their family profile page, perform child searches for them, correspond with caseworkers and their behalf and surround them with resources and encouragement. While this may sound as a though it's a difficult position please note that all training is provided by our organization and requires only that you are consistent and compassionate.  If you excel in communicating, following up and have the capacity to give 5 hours a week per family, we would love to have you.  We ask for a 6 month commitment as families need as much consistency as possible.

 

Child Listing Specialists:

We are currently working to partner with several other states and their photo listing agencies to list more children on our public and non-public sites. We are currently in need of several volunteers who would be willing to help list children in our database and on our sites. While this may sound as though it's a difficult task, all training is provided and only requires an ability to pay attention to detail. Any number of hours would be great for this position.

 

Please visit our website and fill out the volunteer forms or contact:

Bethany Arnold

Volunteer/Intern Coordinator

541-343-2856

Bethany@afamilyforeverychild.org

 

 

Heart Gallery Locations

 March 2011

 

Debbie


 

Applebee's

Arbor South Architecture - Eugene

A Novel Idea - Eugene

Ben White, DDS

Chris Dental - Thurston/Pleasant Hill

 Clackamas Branch DHS

Cottage Grove Community Center

Creswell Library

Denny's - Glenwood

Dr. Barta - DDS

 Dr. Dave Matthews DMD - Eugene

Dr. Blatchford Dental Office - Milwaukie, Oregon

Elite Fitness & Education - Bend

Eugene Airport

Fifth Street Market - Eugene

Friendly Street Market - Eugene

Gateway Mall - Springfield

Heritage Mall - Albany

Home Builders Association, Eugene

I - 5 Glass - Springfield

Iron Works Gym - Creswell

Kendall Auto Group - Eugene

Lakeside Clinic - Eugene

Market of Choice 29th Street - Eugene

Mercedes Benz of Eugene

Metro Perc - Beaverton

Michael J. Criscione DMD - Lake Oswego

Mike Bratland, DDS - Roseburg

Next Door, Inc. - Hood River

Oakmont Family Dental - Eugene

Pacific Auto Repair - Eugene

Pacific Source Health Plans - Tigard

Peace Health Cottage Grove Hospital

Precision Classics & Collision - Eugene

Prime Med Medical Clinic - Cottage Grove

Ray's Food Center - Creswell

Reflections Hair Salon - Coburg

Roseburg Christian Fellowship

Siuslaw Valley Bank - Creswell

Siuslaw Valley Bank - Oakridge

Siuslaw Valley Bank - Pleasant Hill

Summit Bank

Sweet Life - Eugene

  The Bookmine - Cottage Grove

The Dalles and Hermiston Movie Theatres

The Rivers Church - Ellensburg, Washington

The Inn - Portland

US Bank - Chambers & 7th - Eugene

Wells Fargo Bank - W. Broadway - Eugene

 

 

 

How can you contact A Family For Every Child?
Call, email, or visit us online or in person!


contactus880 Beltline Rd.
Springfield Oregon 97477

office - 541-343-2856
toll free - 877-343-2856
fax - 541-343-2866


Executive Director--Christy Obie-Barrett
info@afamilyforeverychild.org

 

 

A Family For Every Child | 880 Beltline Rd. | Springfield | OR | 97477


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