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Lee'Aujanique
Lee'Aujanique
is a 'girly girl' who loves all things pretty and
frilly, especially pretty things in her
hair.
Lee'Aujanique is the second of five
siblings and the oldest of the three in care since
the birth of their youngest brother.
Due
to neglect in the birth family home Lee'Aujanique
was not enrolled in school and thus did not
complete kindergarten. She does best when she has
undivided attention from parents and
teachers.
She and her younger brother have
lived apart for the last two years after
disrupting from their tenth placement together
within a year of entering care. Their combined
behavior was simply too much for most families to
manage. He is not in an adoptive placement. A
family willing to maintain contact with him is
desired and it is hoped the families will provide
supports to each other such as respite so that the
siblings can spend quality time
together.
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Kallen
Hi,
my name is Kallen. I want a Mom and a Dad. Maybe a
big brother. I love animals, like dogs. I like to
be in the outdoors. I also love to be a creative
writer. I've been looking for a forever family. I
have a good sense of humor.
I have been
thinking about what I want in a family, and now I
want to experience that. I would do anything to be
adopted. I want to be loved. I also like to be
tucked in. I want to have discipline, but some
freedom. I am warm-hearted. I like to exercise,
like running. I have had rough patches in my life,
but they are sewn up.
Smart and
quick-witted, Kallen often uses that intelligence
to write, especially in the morning or while
riding on the bus. He wrote the letter above to
express his intense desire for a family. He's
waited nine long years for that.
Kallen is
fun to spend time with because his wheels are
always turning. Keeping him busy helps manage his
hyperactivity. According to his foster mom, having
a young, engaging family that can meet his
activity needs will be key in his life. ''He needs
somebody that is structured and will give
reasonable consequences, then stand by them,'' she
said. ''When he realizes that you mean what you
say, he has shown he can adjust and ultimately he
respects people who hold him accountable.''
Described as impulsive, inquisitive,
humorous, a sharp dresser and someone who likes to
keep his room in order, Kallen is most successful
when he receives praise and attention, especially
when it's connected to sincere efforts to overcome
challenges. He has learned many coping skills,
however; he needs parents who will remind him to
use them when he is overwhelmed, excited or upset.
He wants a family who can allow him to control
some parts of his environment; Kallen says it
makes him feel safe.
Kallen responds well
to unconditional love, clearly expressed
expectations and generous hugs at the end of the
day. He has made astounding progress in the past
several months, due in large part to mature foster
parents who truly care about him. They hope to
always be a part of his life and to remain in
contact with him.
Kallen takes pride in his
manners. He is also enjoying an ability to choose
to disengage from tense situations, take a break
and find safe ways of expressing anger. He looks
forward to having parents who give him time in his
room to think things through and talk about it in
a cooler moment. He often processes through
writing his thoughts and sharing them with his
foster mom. She is no push-over, but also
emphasizes that each day is a new day.
Kallen says he wants a traditional mom and
dad who will do things together as a family. He
loves sports, camping, fishing and hunting. He
would love to get better at snow boarding.
Parents who provide strong boundaries,
clear rules and structure will be rewarded by a
smoother transition into their home. His foster
mom says he becomes anxious when he has too much
time to anticipate a drastic change in his
routine, yet he does need a thoughtful transition
to change.
Kallen deserves to be
surrounded by a family team who appreciates who he
is now as well as his potential. He deals with
emotional challenges by keeping his pain inside
until it bubbles to the top. In the past,
emotional outbursts were usually the result of
frustration, being tired, misunderstanding or
feeling that he had been treated unjustly. Kallen
is learning to be more introspective. He knows
that mending is often more important than
defending. Kallen wants a family to help him
transition into adolescence and to teach him how
to be a happy and successful young man.
Allowing contact between Kallen and his
younger sister is important to him. They are
bonded, though they do need separate homes. Do you
have room in your heart and your home for someone
who wants so badly to belong to a family? Kallen
is ready to share his life with the right
family.
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Steven
Steven
is a very creative, cute and energetic nine year
old. He loves swimming, reading, and playing with
legos and lincoln logs. Steven is usually good
with pets and would respond well to an active
adoptive dad who would take a big role in
parenting him.
Steven is now in the first
grade in a mainstream classroom where he qualifies
for additional support for math, reading and
written expression.
Steven has a younger
brother named Jeremy who he is not being placed
with at this time due to a difficult sibling
relationship. In the future, the boys may want to
have contact and the adoptive family should be
open and supportive of this possibility.
Steven's social worker is looking for
single dads or couples who have experience with
children who have behavioral special needs. His
adoptive parents will need to be familiar with the
tools used in behavioral management or be willing
to learn. He will need supportive parents who will
give him the time and space he needs to trust and
form
relationships.
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Website
Need
A
Family For Every child is seeking web-savvy
volunteers to help with our
websites.
We
have small assignments with lots of skill levels,
ranging from novice to guru.
Attention
to detail is very important, as is a regular
schedule and ability to work onsite for between 4
and 10 hours a week.
If
you are able to fit your code into an existing
project, you can excel!
We
need volunteers who know:
HTML/CSS/PERL
Javascript / DOM / JQuery
Database / SQL / Salesforce
Website
security
PHP and MySqli
Making PC old hardware run like
new
Audio production
If
you have a resume reflecting some of your
experience, please send it to scott@afamilyforeverychild.org and
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Camp
to Belong Event
Saturday
April 9th, 2011 @ Stoller Vineyards 6:00pm -
9:30pm
Join
us and bid on over 100 fabulous
items....
Wonderful
family packages!
Trips
and great experiences
And
much, much more...
Purchase
Tickets here
Don't
miss out on this great opportunity to make a
difference in a child's
life!
To
learn more about CTB-NW or to volunteer, please
contact:
Karyn
Schimmels
Program
Director
(971)
219-4434
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Age
11
Hi!
My name is Patrick. The things I think you
should know about me are that I like to play
basketball, ride my bike and scooter, play video
games, and that I really want a mom and dad to
take care of me and keep me safe. I sometimes
get angry that I don't have a family to love me
and take care of me. When I get angry I can yell
and act out, but I am working on controlling my
emotions and think I have made a lot of
progress.
I like animals and can take
good care of them. I am excited that I'm going
to be living in a place that has horses and
cows. I really want to take care of a baby calf.
I am sad that this place doesn't have a mom and
a dad though, but I know I will get one soon.
While I wait I am going to work really hard to
have good behaviors and do well in school.''
I need a family who will help me stay in
touch with my older brother and two sisters who
live here [SW Idaho]. I see them almost every
weekend. I want a mom and a dad who want to
adopt me and will never get rid of me. I would
also like it if they would play with my toys
with me and watch movies with me. I would love
it if my new mom and dad would read to
me.''
Because Patrick has seen more hard
times than any child should experience, he needs
a traditional home with two parents who have
excellent parenting skills, lots of patience,
and previous experience parenting a special
needs child. Patrick has been through a
multitude of traumas, including multiple moves.
He desperately needs stability in his life, and
a family that will commit to him and stick with
him through a certain difficult transition. He
deserves parents who are inherently wise and
emotionally secure. Patrick has thrived in a
foster home with strong boundaries, a very
structured environment, and consistency in
creative disciplinary techniques. Clarity of
communication has helped Patrick understand
rules and find comfort in reliable routines.
Patrick is now ready for wider opportunities to
experience his world. Organized sports and
community activities such as Scouting, camping,
and YMCA programs are ways he can continue to
build confidence and learn how to manage
emotional outbursts.
Patrick could be
the only child in a family. He would also do
well with teen siblings who are not competitive
about a parent's attention. This boy could learn
social skills from older family members who are
positive mentors and role models.
Patrick
wants frequent visits and contact with siblings
living in Boise, Idaho. The children look
forward to sleepovers, shared vacations or other
opportunities to remain in close
contact.
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Age
8
Hoping
to identify a family in Washington or close
enough to facilitate continued visits with his
older brother.
Lorenzo is a shy boy who
smiles easily and likes being outside; running,
playing ball, riding on his hot wheels and
scooter as well as playing with other
children.
This little boy has faced many
challenges in his life, and will face more as he
grows. He needs the safety and stability of a
permanent home, where all his needs can be
met.
He'll need committed parents who are
willing to learn about and can support him on a
day to day basis. A strong family who will
advocate for his special needs, now and in the
future. His prospective adoptive parents will
need to have access to community resources, and
be willing to work cooperatively with
professionals and other social service and
educational providers.
Prospective
parents should be open to continued contact
between Lorenzo and his brother, if it is deemed
beneficial for Lorenzo. Most importantly,
Lorenzo needs a family who will love him as
their own and afford him kindness, patience and
compassion, within a well supervised and
structured
home.
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Age
15
Timothy
is a shy 14-year-old boy, who hasn't had much
opportunity to just be a child. He enjoys a
challenging game of chess to use his advanced
logic and thinking skills, and he also like
riding his bike, skateboarding and playing
electronic games. He thrives on adult attention
and responds well to people who like him.
Timothy came into foster care when he
was 8 years old and was adopted by a relative
when he was 10 (along with younger twin
brothers). He (and his brothers) returned to
foster care in 2007, and though his brothers
have since been adopted separate), Timothy is
still waiting for his forever family. Due to
past traumas, Timothy responds better to men
than women. He needs to learn that not all women
are bad and they are capable of loving him.
At school, Timothy struggles with
writing, but he is improving, and his teacher
reports he is a pleasure to have in her class.
Timothy wants 2 parents to adopt him. He
expresses no gender preference, as long as it's
not a single parent. He wants parents who will
cook for him, show him affection and enjoy being
in his company. He needs a committed family, who
will spend time with him, talking, playing games
and actively engaging him in daily activities; a
family who will advocate for his educational and
emotional needs and help him nurture his
relationship with his brothers.
Timothy
can get along with other children, but he
requires his own space, where he can withdraw
and have quiet time now and then. He needs a
family who can appreciate his strengths and love
him for who he is, while gently guiding him
toward further improvements. Such a family will
find Timothy to be a rewarding and engaging
child.
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A
Family For Every Child presents the 3rd Annual
Princess for a Day event on Sunday, March 6th,
from 10am to 5pm at the Valley
River Inn. Girls ages 2-18 are invited to come
and be transformed into beautiful
princesses!
Every
Girl Deserves to be a Princess!
To
Register for the event,
click here
Event
is FREE for Girls in Foster
Care
Non-Foster
Girls $50.00. Your ticket price will help
support the cost of a foster "Princess" in
the community!
Have
a royal day with your favorite
Princess!
As
girls arrive to the event, they are ushered into
the makeshift salon, sponsored by local beauty
experts, for pampering and makeovers. Next stop
is wardrobe, where each child receives a
princess dress, slippers, a feather boa, a
tiara, and accessories. A professional
photographer takes a picture of each girl before
she is escorted by a teen volunteer to the
ballroom for tea and refreshments. Every child
leaves the event with a keepsake
professional-quality photograph of herself, her
princess outfit, and a goody
bag.
If
you are interested in helping and/or donating
dresses or accessories, contact Christy: christy@afamilyforeverychild.org
or jenelle@afamilyforeverychild.org
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Dear Prospective Foster and Adoptive
Parents,
The Bellevue Rotary Club and Region IV
DCFS are collaborating to bring you an exciting
opportunity to meet sibling groups of children
and youth in need of foster and adoptive
families! We are extending this invitation to
you in hopes that you will
attend.
Every year hundreds of children are
separated from their siblings in foster care and
adoption; often because there are simply too few
families able and willing to consider taking in
more than one child at a time! The Bellevue
Rotary Club and Region IV DCFS want to change
this by helping families learn about the many
excellent resources available to support
siblings and caregiving families and by
providing families an opportunity to meet and
interact with the siblings who need
them!
The children and youth attending will
have fun with their siblings in a carnival like
atmosphere! They will also have an opportunity
to meet and connect with prospective foster
and/or adoptive families. The Connections
Carnival serves as a "first meeting" where
families and children mingle informally while
enjoying a variety of activities including
scavenger hunts, music, crafts and games for
children of all ages. Because of the numbers of
children and families present this interaction
is much more a 'carnival' and less pressure than
a one-to-one
meeting.
All children and youth attending will
receive prizes! This is guaranteed to be a fun
event for adults and children!
A Resource Fair will kick off the
Carnival and families will learn about the many
resources, supports and services available to
foster and adoptive parents of sibling groups!
Families must be pre-registered and
have current criminal background clearances!
Families do not need to have to have approved
foster or adoptive home studies to attend.
Please contact Laurie Mayer by email at the
address below if you would like to register to
attend. Background clearances can be confirmed
by family's agency workers or arrange to be
completed by Laurie
Mayer.
Sincerely,
Laurie
Mayer, MSW
Program
Consultant, Reg IV Office of Adoption and
Permanency Planning
Email:laurie.mayer@dshs.wa.gov
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5th
Street Public Market Heart
Gallery
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Our
mission is to find loving, permanent families
for waiting foster children. As a
non-profit our work takes hundreds of volunteer
hours, without these amazing people our work
would not be a success! We value each and
every one of our volunteers and cannot thank you
enough for your thoughtful
consideration.
Submission
Team:
We
send nearly 700 home studies each month to
various caseworkers for families who are waiting
to be selected. To do this it takes many
volunteer hours from people who can pay
attention to detail and are able to email and
attach files. This position takes someone
who is able to come to our office and can range
anywhere from 3 to 20 hours a week, depending on
your availability. While this work takes a
lot of time, it is highly rewarding, especially
when you get to see a family chosen for a
child!
Office
Assistance:
We
are in need of a few people who can assist with
filing, answering phones, checking references
and other various tasks. All training will
be provided. This person would ideally be
able to volunteer 2 - 5 hours per
week.
Venue
Volunteers:
Another
tool we use for recruiting for children is our
local venues. You may have seen these
around the area (if you reside in
Oregon). We display photos of available and
waiting children with bio information in
restaurants, doctors and dentist's offices,
airports, grocery stores and the like. We
are currently in need of several venue
volunteers in the Eugene and surrounding
area. All photos and needs are supplied by
our organization. This basically consists
of picking up your new photos, going to the
venue and swapping them out with the
old.
Foster
Support Meeting Volunteer:
Twice
a month we hold meetings at Boys and Girls Aide
for current foster families. We would love
to have one or two volunteers that would commit
to spending time with the kids while their
foster parents are in support meetings. It
would be ideal to have college age volunteers
who are willing to play with and support these
kids. The meetings are generally two hours
and are on every other Thursday
evening.
Volunteer
Family Adoption
Specialists:
We
have a Matching Assistance Program that partners
with families that are currently in the adoption
process. This program is geared towards
families who have not yet had a placement and
have been in the process for a year or
longer. The goal of this program and the
task of the Family Adoption Specialist is to
walk alongside families in their
journey. Give them feedback on their family
profile page, perform child searches for them,
correspond with caseworkers and their behalf and
surround them with resources and
encouragement. While this may sound as a
though it's a difficult position please note
that all training is provided by our
organization and requires only that you are
consistent and compassionate. If you excel
in communicating, following up and have the
capacity to give 5 hours a week per family, we
would love to have you. We ask for a 6
month commitment as families need as much
consistency as
possible.
Child
Listing Specialists:
We
are currently working to partner with several
other states and their photo listing agencies to
list more children on our public and non-public
sites. We are currently in need of several
volunteers who would be willing to help list
children in our database and on our
sites. While this may sound as though it's
a difficult task, all training is provided and
only requires an ability to pay attention to
detail. Any number of hours would be great
for this position.
Please
visit our website and fill out the
volunteer forms or
contact:
Bethany
Arnold
Volunteer/Intern
Coordinator
541-343-2856
Bethany@afamilyforeverychild.org
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Heart
Gallery Locations
March
2011
Applebee's
Arbor
South Architecture -
Eugene
A
Novel Idea - Eugene
Ben
White, DDS
Chris
Dental - Thurston/Pleasant
Hill
Clackamas
Branch DHS
Cottage
Grove Community
Center
Creswell
Library
Denny's
- Glenwood
Dr.
Barta - DDS
Dr.
Dave Matthews DMD -
Eugene
Dr.
Blatchford Dental Office - Milwaukie,
Oregon
Elite
Fitness & Education -
Bend
Eugene
Airport
Fifth
Street Market - Eugene
Friendly
Street Market -
Eugene
Gateway
Mall - Springfield
Heritage
Mall -
Albany
Home
Builders Association,
Eugene
I
- 5 Glass -
Springfield
Iron
Works Gym -
Creswell
Kendall
Auto Group - Eugene
Lakeside
Clinic - Eugene
Market
of Choice 29th Street -
Eugene
Mercedes
Benz of Eugene
Metro
Perc - Beaverton
Michael
J. Criscione DMD - Lake Oswego
Mike
Bratland, DDS -
Roseburg
Next
Door, Inc. - Hood
River
Oakmont
Family Dental -
Eugene
Pacific
Auto Repair -
Eugene
Pacific
Source Health Plans -
Tigard
Peace
Health Cottage Grove
Hospital
Precision
Classics & Collision -
Eugene
Prime
Med Medical Clinic - Cottage
Grove
Ray's
Food Center -
Creswell
Reflections
Hair Salon - Coburg
Roseburg
Christian
Fellowship
Siuslaw
Valley Bank -
Creswell
Siuslaw
Valley Bank
- Oakridge
Siuslaw
Valley Bank - Pleasant
Hill
Summit
Bank
Sweet
Life - Eugene
The Bookmine - Cottage
Grove
The
Dalles and Hermiston Movie
Theatres
The
Rivers Church - Ellensburg,
Washington
The
Inn - Portland
US
Bank - Chambers & 7th -
Eugene
Wells
Fargo Bank - W. Broadway -
Eugene
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can you contact A Family For Every
Child? Call,
email, or visit us online or in
person!
880
Beltline Rd. Springfield Oregon
97477
office
- 541-343-2856 toll
free - 877-343-2856 fax
- 541-343-2866
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