WHETHER YOU SAY
“ROCK” - “PAPER” - “SCISSORS”
or
“GLUE” - “BLING” -
“KIDS”
We can have fun!
It's an ADOPTION FOSTER LIFEBOOK!
We have heard it is the best gift in the world for a
foster child or adoptee.
How do you fit in? We need you, your creativity (we
can lend you some if you think you don't have any), and your time in order
to create these gifts for local foster children. Adoption Life Books
resemble scrapbooks and, like scrapbooks, there are a lot of ways to be
involved. Curious? Interested? If so, please contact
either:
Pam: email pam@afamilyforeverychild.org;
phone 541-868-4809.
or Christy Obie-Barrett: email christy@afamilyforeverychild.org; phone 541-343-2856
These books impact the lives of children and protect
memories that otherwise might be lost.
Adoption
Life Books
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"An Adoption LifeBook records a
foster/adoptee’s life that uses words, photos, graphics, the child’s
artwork, and memorabilia. An Adoption LifeBook includes
information about the child’s birth parents and reason for
separation. It always starts at the child’s birth and often
includes the fun part of when the adopted child joined a
family.
An Adoption LifeBook tells more than a
life story. It represents a unique opportunity for parents to
honor every minute of their children’s lives. It acts as the
single most meaningful piece of "paperwork" that any social worker
can complete. As for foster parents, this is their chance to
give an adoptee/foster child a sweet childhood memory. |
What are some of the benefits of an Adoption
LifeBook? An adoption LifeBook provides:
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A concrete tool for meaningful
conversation |
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An adoption security blanket |
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Attachment rituals |
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Structure for difficult material
(such as reasons for the relinquishment) |
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Ways to normalize adoption
language |
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Ways to reduce fantasy about
birthparents (could this help with paying attention in
school?) |
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A front-load for adolescence |
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Opportunities to create positive
identity and ethnic identity
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Space for future
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~LifeBook
Links~ |
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Birthday Weather http://www.wunderground.com/
Find the weather for any state or country. If you want
weather for a historical date, i.e. your child’s birthday, go to the
country/city you want and enter that date. Free!
Beth O'Malley's
Website: http://www.adoptionlifebooks.com/ Created by
an adoptee & new adoptive mother. Tons of free resources,
articles, monthly newsletter, success stories, Q&A section,
schedule for Beth’s live presentations, and the LifeBook Shoppe
(books, workbooks, & special E-reports).
Time
Capsule Website: http://dmarie.com/timecap/step1.asp Discover
what happened the day you were born. Headlines, toys, movies, or
even famous people born on same date. Free!
Lifebook Articles www.adoptionlifebooks.com/ lifebook_article.htm Want
to learn more? Need handouts for training? Check out
articles written by an adult adoptee (that would be me--Beth
O'Malley).
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Interested in finding a map? Google itGo to: http://www.google.com/ and type in “maps—name of
country or state/province.” There are many sites which have
downloadable maps, geography facts, etcetera. Very helpful
tool for showing where children are born and where they live
now.
Karen’s Adoption Links Perhaps one
of the best adoption sites---it contains tons of resources related
to both LifeBooks and adoption. IT IS A NON COMMERCIAL
WEBSITE. Newly added are International birth, family search
resources, and Sibling Registries for both adoptive parents and
adult adoptees. http://www.karensadoptionlinks.com/
Day of Birth http://www.dayofbirth.co.uk/ Learn what day of
the week you were born on. Discover how many days until your
next birthday, how many seconds old you are, plus other links.
Free!
Pages from their lives http://www.registerguard.com/ Volunteers put their hearts into designing pages for adopted children's Lifebooks.
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Welcome Books |
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Adoptive parents make the Welcome
Book as asimple way to introduce a child to his or her
immediate family and surroundins, including their pets, car, yard,
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The Welcome
Book consists mainly of photos and short descriptions
(whew—no tough text like that Life Book). The length varies
between 5-9 pages. Details about the importance of the book and how
to make it can be found below.
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Our Lifebooking Partners
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Jani Agular at janilovestocrop@comcast.net
Jani holds group scrap booking sessions to put together pages for Foster Kids in Oregon.
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Willamette Stationers has a donation box and several donation events/evenings where they collect car loads of supplies for us to use to build pages for Foster kids in Oregon. They call it "the Heart Gallery Life Book Project". Interested in donating? Contact Maxine at maxinew@willstat.com .
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A very
special thank you to Beth
O'Malley
Adoption-Works
By Beth O’Malley, M.Ed, an adoptee, adoptive
mother, adoption social worker, and the author of LifeBooks: Creating
a Treasure for the Adopted Child. Sign up for free LifeBook
lessons and a monthly newsletter at www.adoptionlifebooks.com/signup.htm
Adoption LifeBooks - sign up for
free tips. Beth O'Malley helping families create
adoption LifeBooks.
Please visit her website
at http://www.adoptionlifebooks.com/
REQUIRED FORMS TO VOLUNTEER
WORD
DOCUMENT
PDF
DOCUMENT
Criminal History Request/Use for current and
new volunteers hired by AFFEC and working directly with Oregon Department
of Human Services