|Today in the United States, 423,000 children are living in Foster Care waiting for their Forever Family. Approximately 115,000 of these children are ready to be adopted. Unfortunately, 40% of these children will wait for over three years in foster care before finding a permanent home. Could you be a Forever Family for a child that is waiting?|
Who are the children in foster care?
Many children are in foster care because they were removed from their families due to abuse, neglect or abandonment. Children live temporarily with extended family, a foster family or in a group home while social workers try to help the birth family. If the birth family's problems cannot be resolved, the agency that has custody of the child goes to court to legally terminate parental rights. At this point, social workers try to find a safe and loving adoptive family for the child. Virtually every race, ethnic group and socio-economic category is represented. Some children are waiting alone and others are waiting with siblings.
I'm not married, can I still adopt?You do not need to be married to adopt. Single parents can make great parents to a child looking for their forever family.
What if I work full time?
You do not need to be a stay-at-home parent to adopt. As long as you have a safe place for the child to stay while you are away from the home, working full time should not be a problem.
Our house is smaller, does the child have to have their own bedroom if we adopt?
No, each child only needs to have their own bed. Children of the opposite sex may share a room if they are under a certain age determined by the State (usually around 6 years old). Keep in mind, depending on the circumstances there may be child-to-square-feet requirements or behavioral concerns that may not allow children to share a room.
I am no longer child bearing age, am I too old to adopt?
No. It is encouraged for parents with experience to adopt. Age should not be a barrier to becoming a parent to a child in foster care.
We are a military family, can we still adopt?
Yes, military families stationed overseas and in the United States are eligible to adopt children from the U.S. foster care system. Many organizations are working to make the adoption process easier for military families. Find out more information by visiting this website:http://adoptuskids.org/for-families/who-can-foster-and-adopt/adoption-resources-for-military-families
What if I don't own my own home?
You will not be turned down for adoption if you do not own your own home. There are no rules preventing you from renting your home.
What is a SNAC agency?
An agency who works to find families for children who have special needs is a SNAC (Special Needs Adoption Coalition) agency. An adoption is usually considered "special needs" if: the child is over six years old, part of a sibling group, has some physical, mental or emotional disabilities, or is part of an ethnic minority.
What is Matching Assistance?
This program was created to connect families to children nationwide, and increase the search results for children waiting in foster care. We are committed to assisting families, caseworkers and adoption workers in the effort to place children in adoptive homes. Families that choose to work with the Matching Assistance Program receive a log in to a special nationwide search engine with an ever growing private listing of many children that can't be seen on a public site. This program assists struggling families during the adoption process in any part of the country.
Is the Matching Assistance Program a part of AFFEC Adoption Agency?
The adoption agency and Matching Assistance are separate programs of A Family For Every Child. The Matching Assistance Program is a nationwide search engine to help parents locate a child for their family. The Adoption Agency is only available for Oregon families and can help with Home Studies and other aspects of adoption. The families who choose to go with AFFEC Adoption Agency also have complete access to the matching program.
What is a Home Study?
A home study is both a process and a document required by the government for every adoption to make sure that your home is a safe and healthy place for a child. It ensures that you are well-prepared to become parents, and have the means to support a child or children as part of a "forever family." A home study can only be used for one adoption (sibling groups are considered to be one, if done at the same time). AFFEC can complete a home study, and also provides a free copy of your home study to you.
Who selects the family for a child/children?
The selection process varies from state to state. In some states the caseworker of the child makes the final decision, in other states it is decided by a committee of professionals in the adoption field. Consideration of a family is done by reading the family's home study and assessment.
What is the ICPC process for adoption from another state?
Because each state has differing adoption laws, when a child is transferred between states, an ICPC (Interstate Compact on the Placement of Children) is required. In the state of Oregon, the Child Welfare Manual details a tutorial for completing the ICPC. More information can be found on the state of Oregon's ICPC website.
Can LGBTQ (Lesbian, Gay, Bi-sexual, Transgender, and Queer) parents adopt?The laws vary from state to state. In many states this is permitted; however, for interstate adoption, this becomes more complex. Click here for a current summary of the laws by state.
How much does it cost to adopt?
While it does not cost to adopt from the state foster care system, there are fees with choosing a private agency to write your home study/assessment. The fees for private agencies vary considerably. Here is A Family For Every Child's fee schedule. You can also access a list of resources to help with funding for adoption services by clicking here.
Where do I take the required training?
Each state has it's own requirements on training in order to become an adoptive parent. The training sessions vary by area and location, and are typically four to ten weeks or weekend sessions. You will want to check into what is available in your area.
- Prepare prospective parents to better understand a child who comes out of the foster care system
- Prepare prospective parents for adoption
- Challenge individuals to grow and develop as a parent
- Help parents consider: what type of child can I successfully parent? Am I able to parent a child who has been neglected and/or abused to some degree?
Legal risk vs. legally free
Legal Risk - A child in state foster care with a case plan for adoption may be placed with a pre-adoptive family as a "legal risk" placement if the actual termination of parental rights is not yet completed. Many states are very proactive about finding adoptive placements while children are still considered legal risk, because the state would like to avoid large numbers of children being wards of the state. Some states do everything possible to keep the number of children considered orphans low and work hard to find adoptive families before the child is considered a waiting child. Usually, children with legal risk statuses are only shown to families within the state with a hope to find an adoptive placement before the termination of parental rights is completed.
Legally Free - A child in state foster care who is "legally free" for adoption is a child whose birth parent's rights have been terminated by the state. This means the child is a ward of the state and has no legal parents. All the paper work is done, and there is no risk that a child placed for adoption will not be adopted by the family selected as the pre-adoptive placement.
When a child's parents or guardians have relinquished their parental rights or have had them terminated in a court of law. Once this has occurred, a child is then "legally free" to be adopted by another person or family member.
How do I get started?
Oregon Adoption Information Night (and Webinar)
A Family For Every Child Adoption Agency holds an Adoption Information Session for families interested in starting the home study process at various locations throughout Oregon. By registering for an upcoming meeting in your area you will receive a copy of our Parent Packet to review, a confirmed seat in the session, and a reminder phone call before the meeting. Upcoming information nights are scheduled for:
Tigard, OregonSaturday, March 3, 2018 11:00am
12244 SW Garden Place
Tigard, OR 97223
Online Information SessionSaturday, February 10, 2018 10:30am
Eugene, OregonThursday, March 1st, 2018 06:00pm
A Family For Every child
1675 W 11th Avenue
Eugene, OR 97402
To register for one of the in person information nights, please email
with the date you would like to attend and the number of people attending.
Space is limited, so be sure to register now.
If you need assistance with a home study, or prefer to speak over the phone, please call Kim at 541-343-2856.